2011 – A Year to Remember

Another Year Over…A New One Just Begun [John Lennon]

It’s been a helluva year hasn’t it? From the crazy political climate to the high unemployment rate. The middle east conflicts in Iraq, Afghanistan, Libya, Iran, Israel, and on and on. The occupy movements sprouting up all over the world. CEOs taking an average wage increase of 35%. And, the killing and exploiting of peoples all over the world is still a way of life for many. It’s hard to find a positive note, except for those very cool flash mobs. But, I think I have.

As corny as it sounds, I think love is still the answer. It’s difficult to explain this thing called love. It’s something that is a win-win for everyone. When you give it, you get it back. When you do something out of love for another person, it’s amazing what can happen to the person. Even a small gesture can change a person’s life forever.

Yes, there is evil in the world and probably always will be. I don’t want to be accused of over simplifying things. But, if we could all view our world from a perspective of love rather than greed or power, we could really change the world. I’m remembering John Lennon’s song Imagine.

Speaking of love. This year, I moved in with my girlfriend and her two teenage daughters. This was a difficult decision as you can imagine. Volunteering to live with teenagers? Am I nuts? Maybe. But, I feel their mother is the most special woman in the world. I thought the love I felt for her would make it all worth it. I still feel the same.

I’m now a mentor, teacher, advisor, and friend to two teenage girls I now consider step-daughters. I find myself continually trying to make love the primary motivator whenever conflicts arise. Oh boy has that been difficult sometimes! But, it seems to be working. They have already enriched my life beyond words and may have taught me more than I’ve taught them.

In a selfish way, it’s so cool to see how I have affected their lives in a positive way. It makes me misty when I see or hear them doing or saying something that I have taught them. Especially if it’s something I didn’t intentionally foresee. They are both quickly becoming so smart and mature that it’s scary.

Now, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention how important my woman has been throughout this entire process. Her intelligence, wisdom and groundedness (I made up that word) have really been my inspiration. When I think it’s all gonna fall apart, she will put things back into perspective for me and I fall even further in love with her.

Oh, about this past year. For me it’s been a roller coaster in both business and my personal life. I won’t go into any nasty details. Sorry, no dirty laundry here! Here is a list of some highlights of my 2011.

  • Finished recording my 1st music CD, The Apple, with original songs. You can have a listen or buy it here: www.spidergroove.com.
  • Wrote a ton of new songs and recorded a few rough drafts.
  • Made some new friends. Made some new friends in business, too.
  • Gained a ton of knowledge in my career in design and programming.
  • Started a business with my girlfriend making fairy houses. She’s very talented and you can view and purchase her work here: www.ausrasfairyhouses.com
  • Joined and volunteer at the South Lake Art League.
  • Cooked some great meals and ate at some great restaurants.
  • Saw my niece turn her life around in a positive way.
  • Watched my nephew grow his own business into a successful company. www.jandjhardwood.com
  • Watched my girlfriend make huge strides in her career at Disney. Her self-confidence is at an all-time high and I’m loving every minute of it.
  • Spent a week with my mom which was great fun.
  • Spent a few days in St. Augustine with my new family and had a blast.
  • Went to a friend’s wedding in Miami which was one of the most beautiful weddings I’ve been to.
  • Watched a friend race a real race car on a real race track.
  • Teaching my step-daughter how to drive.
  • Watching my other step-daughter perform in The Nutcracker.
  • Went to a few live musicals in Orlando.
  • Had my best friends stay with me for a few months and had so much fun.

Overall, I’ve had a wonderful year and given the circumstances around the world today, I can’t complain. I have the love of my family and that’s really all that matters in the end. I wish you all the very best in the upcoming year. 

Tell me some of your highlights in the comments area below.  I’d love to hear from you!

Happy Holidays everyone and be safe.

 

 

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Web-Listings.net – Don’t waste your time!

I recently received a letter in the mail, (yes, snail mail), from a company called Web Listings, Inc. Their website is www.web-listings.net. They are selling a bogus SEO service. Here is the scoop.

Firstly, the mailing is made to look like an invoice. This is to fool the novice into thinking this is part of their new website agreement and they should pay it. It does say it’s “not a bill” however.

Their “offer” is to submit your domain to “20 established search engines”. Then, they claim they will send you a monthly report on your listings, up to 8 keyword phrases.

Here’s the thing. There is no longer a need to submit your site to the search engines. This used to be the case many years ago. But, Google has especially gotten quite good at finding your site, and quickly, without you ever submitting it to them.

Believe me. Today, developers like myself need to block search engines from finding our sites while they are in development because they find them so fast! So, hiring a service to submit your site is simply a waste of your money.

About the reporting. They say they will send you a monthly report. My guess is they probably have a program like Web Position Gold where they simply enter the domain name, your keywords, and it automatically generates reports and sends them to you. While you may find some of these reports useful, you can get most of the same information by using Google Analytics. And, it’s free!

I’m also guessing once they have their hooks in you, they will try to upsell you on other SEO related services. In my opinion, if they are willing to sell you a service that is not needed for $85, I’m sure they will sell you more services that are either not needed or have inflated prices. I say stay away!

And lastly…how did they get your information? Probably by using the information you provided when you purchased your domain. If you did not choose to use “private registration”, then it’s easy for them to take this information and solicit. Should you choose private registration when purchasing a domain? Maybe. You also need to consider that many folks know how to do a WhoIs lookup to see who owns the domain and if they are legit, before making a purchase on your website. If it’s private, some may consider this a red flag and go elsewhere.

I hope this helps someone avoid spending hard earned money on worthless services like these.

Oh, by the way. If you look up the owner of web-listings.net, you’ll see they have registered it privately! I guess they don’t want to be solicited with worthless services too!

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Pet Domain For Sale

A great pet domain with a Google Page Rank of 2! This gives you a great head start. It’s live and is currently an affiliate site. I’m willing to sell with the Zen Cart installation or just the domain. Make me a reasonable offer and it could be yours! www.save-on-petsupplies.com

 

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Unethical Online Tactics – Not a pretty story

I just finished reading an article about deceptive online marketing practices and felt the need to give my opinion on the subject. Especially since I have first hand experience with a former client that engaged in not only deceptive practices but unethical and down right dirty practices.

Honesty and hard work used to be the cornerstone to building a successful business. At least that’s what I was taught while growing up. The internet seems to have changed that mindset. Many successful online companies have lied and cheated their way to the top. So, in a way I empathise with companies starting out online and want to use these tactics because “they’re doing it, why shouldn’t I?”

For many years the internet has been a “wild west” of sorts. There weren’t many rules. And, the rules that were in place were easily circumvented. Since there was no internet police, companies acted like outlaws raping and pillaging as they pleased. And yes they made a lot of money doing so.

Link building. Thanks to Google making back links such a big part of their page rank algorithm, companies sought to get as many links to their websites as possible. This spawned “link farms” which are sites that had thousands of links to other websites. They would then run advertisements on their site in hopes of generating some income. Google caught on and devalued links on these link farms. Thankfully, these types of sites are not showing up on the top pages of Google any longer. As a consequence, some company websites still suffer today from having their links on these link farms and can’t get them removed. A quick fix comes back to bite them in the ass.

But, Google still regards back links as very important to ranking a website. So, this has spawned yet another tactic. Now, there are webmasters selling back links, with or without the knowledge of company owners. Most of these webmasters are very discreet with this tactic and only accept links that are related to the site they are adding the link to. Google likes to see links to and from related sites. For example, if a pet related site links to a penis enlargement site, this would not be good.

The problem with this tactic of buying and selling links is that it’s not a natural process of linking to each other. It’s bottom line driven. So, the consumer suffers because they are being told (by the top Google search results) that these sites are better than the others. There may be many other sites that deserve better rankings but simply don’t have the money to pay other sites to link to them.

What about the companies that engage in ethical link exchanges? Many times these companies are manipulated by the online marketing company that is trying to build their back links. So, they will write “marketing copy” in their link requests instead of telling the truth.

An example was talked about in the article I read this morning that prompted me to write this one. You can find the article here: Deceptive Marketing: A Necessary Evil for Search Marketers?. (Now, this is how a natural back link occurs folks! I found the article interesting and wanted to give them credit. Simple as that.)

The example was a marketer that sent a link request that mentioned that he had a favorite site from which he liked to buy stuff for his son on birthdays and holidays. But, he had no son! It was a marketing tactic. A lie to help him win the link. So, in my view, what else is this marketer willing to do? How far is he willing to go with the lies?

Another “black hat” SEO technique is to buy a lot of different but related domain names and create small websites on each. These sites are built for one thing only…back-links. They offer no real value to a consumer. Many companies have tens or even hundreds of these types of sites. I know of one very large company that hired a staff for this task alone. Remember the JC Penny story just a few months ago?

Google got somewhat wise to this tactic and now takes into consideration if a bunch of inter-linked sites are within a specific IP range, they get lower rankings. Of course, the black hats then simply create multiple web hosting accounts and place 4 or 5 on each, in order to get around the IP range issue. Some web hosts are now offering SEO web hosting that deal with the IP range issue. What a game!

In my opinion, Google should scale back on the value of back-links in their algorithm.

Now let’s talk about so-called customer reviews. You don’t have to worry about companies like Amazon or eBay. Their reviews are from real people that made real purchases. Nowadays, there are third party companies like ePinions, Bizrate, etc. that allow folks to post reviews about other companies. The problem is many of these services allow you to review a company you may have never purchased from. They don’t really have any way of knowing. So, they accept the review (good or bad) and you as a consumer trust they are real.

Google now uses Bizrate reviews as part of their ranking algorithm. Now, companies create fictitious email accounts and submit reviews to these services in hopes of getting better search result placement. There are many companies doing this. More than you think.

Google also allows webmasters to submit reviews site maps for individual websites. This means a company can create fake reviews on their own site and submit them to Google. Not to mention the fact that you as a consumer are being duped into trusting the company because they have so many great reviews on their site.

In Google’s defense, they have made and continue to make improvements to their algorithm to try and defeat the cheaters. Their latest Panda update being one of them. But, it’s a very big job to tackle. For every update they make, someone thinks of a work around.

How about contests? You’ve all seen them. Win a $50 coupon. Send us a photo and you could win blah blah blah. These can very easily be rigged and sometimes are. I know a company that did this. They went so far as to look thru all the entries to see if the person ever ordered from them. If not, their entry was disregarded. If they found a customer that spent lots of money with them, they would win the contest. If they couldn’t find anyone, they would make up the winner and nobody would actually win anything.

Ah, but now they have your email address. What will they do with it? If they are willing to deceive you into entering a contest, what else are they willing to do?

How about companies that claim they give a percentage of their revenue to charities? I know a company that claimed they gave 10% of their annual revenue to charities. They they did not. They listed on their website about 10 different organizations they claimed to give to. In reality, they gave a few hundred bucks to only one of them.

This is yet another ahem…marketing tactic used by many online companies. They are trying to build your trust. You see lots of great reviews. They give to charities. They have great contests. They must be a company I can trust. It’s sad but true. We’re being lied to and most of the time there is nothing we can do about it.

Having said all that. Again, I can empathize with some of the smaller online companies using some of these tactics. After all, they didn’t invent the game. They are just trying to play it. And, if everyone else is cheating, why can’t I?

In my opinion, lying and cheating is not a way to run a business or run your life. Most cultures (if not all) consider lying and/or cheating to be wrong.

I’m also a step-parent of two teenagers. At the expense of sounding old, this new generation seems to think that it’s ok to lie, cheat, be lazy, etc as long as they get something out of it. They think of only the quick fix that will satisfy their needs now. They do not think of the long term consequences of their actions. They are children and that’s what they do. But, it’s our job to point them in the right direction and hope they make wise decisions. It’s very difficult to do this when there is so much successful deceit.

Many online companies think just like teenagers looking for a quick fix no matter how they go about it. Is this really want we want to be teaching our children? If you’re a parent and engage in these kinds of tactics, let me ask you a question. Do you tell your children not to lie to you?

By the way. I made up the first review below in hopes of getting you to add your comment.

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